Monday, April 07, 2008

Twenty five things

Where do I start from? I give God all the glory. How was your Easter Break? I bet everyone had the holiday all over the GLOBE? Abi now? I am good but very very tired from my Camp-Out programme. I wonder how parents with 10 children cope especially the mum. Ko easy men.

This is not an update. I'm serious and i promise to update before friday.Infact to be specific 11th April in the year of our Lord 2008!

Just wanted to share this withall the sisters in blogville.

Sista, i need you to raise your two fingers in the air and say oh oh .....then screammmmmmmmmmmm (please what am i feeling like?)

Now to the gist

Twenty five things a sista should not apologize for ............................

1. Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if
you need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across
always do what you really want.

2. Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping it real
doesn't mean speaking Ebonics.

3. Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that
just didn't work out.

4. Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to
keep you at their level.

5. Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and
express yourself.

6. Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose. People who
truly care about you will accept you as you are.

7. Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your
money instead of blowing it on the latest fashion emergency
doesn't mean you're cheap.

8. Don't apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are a

9. Never apologize for treating yourself to something special.
Sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation. Amen to

10. Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your
safety should always be a priority. Soooooooo True

11. Never apologize for keeping the ring even if you did not
get married.

12. Never apologize for setting high standards in a
relationship. You know what you can tolerate and what simply
gets on your nerves.

13. Never apologize for saying NO.

14. Never apologize for asking for what you want in bed. If you
don't, then who will?

15. Never apologize for wearing a weave or braids. You bought
it so it's yours.

16. Never apologize to your new friends about old friends.
There's a reason she's been your girl from day one.

17. Never apologize for ordering dessert or more than one

18. Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because
you found Mr. Right across the color line doesn't mean you
don't love your brothas.

19. Never apologize for demanding respect. You are to always
be treated as a queen.

20. Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you
can't burn like Grandma you know how to order good take out.
(Right Girl!)

21. Never apologize for your taste in clothes. It's your style.

22. Never apologize for changing your mind, it is your

23. Never apologize for making a decision from your heart, even
if others don't agree. You have to live with the consequences
not them.

24. Never apologize for making more money than your man, you
work hard and you deserve to get paid.

25. Never apologize for being YOU!

Keep your head UP and keep moving"


Buki, He's got your back gurl.



30+ said...

Finally and I am first

darkelcee said...


thanks sista

30+ said...

Alright I am not apologising for being first to comment on your blog - lol

No more apolgies

Charizard said...

uh...why is directed only at the sistaz....buh for real..y'all sitaz should quit apologising..word...

Girl, I got ur back 4 real...

Buttercup said...

I think a girl needs to read this everyday, like seriously...thanx for sharin this....*raises two fingers in the air n screeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamssssssssssssssss* lol...

s.chic said...

two fingers in the air...don't know bout the scream part sha, me i have sore-throat...

Jaycee said...


Lol...where do u get these things from?

Charizard said...

s.chic it would take u to have sore throat...wetin u do wey u get sore

darkelcee said...

yessss. no more apologies

we kinda do that a lot.we are changing for real.

i have been reading since i got the mail

sore throat? sorry dear but hey you can still croak...lolll

Wonderful friends. how are you doing?

help me ask her again and again.loll

Naija Chickito said...

Hmm..tell them..

rethots said...

...and someone said: "Never apologise, your friends don't need it, your enemies won't believe it anyway."
What hails?

s.chic said...

charizard, na me and this boy dey pass spit over the weekend oh...i no sabi wetin the boy come give me

ok, i kid abeg, i no kiss anyone oh...walls have ears...i no even sabi where the sorethroat come from...but thanks to ginger tea sha... i can scream nowwww...

Aphrodite said...

"Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you
can't burn like Grandma you know how to order good take out"

Seriously now,babes we should apologize for this!

*make una no beat me o!*

Lolu Kush (Afronuts) said...

Strong apologies for thot. Self esteem booster for the ladies

Almost took it in till i noticed it said for sista's and the references

Afrobabe said...

Preach it sister....I soooooooo would not return that ring...the cheek of him to have expected it...

darkelcee said...

@naija chickito

you need to apologize when you are wrong though. I'm good and u?

lolll.all hail the powerful ginger tea!

it is def a shame for a sista not to be able to "mix" a properly apology must be on the way.

@lolu kush
a broda can borrow one or two ideas too. lol

why should a sista return the ring? it should be displayed in the hall of fame.lolllll

La Reine said...

Word of Mouth right there!
Preach the Truth, lol!

-I'm all good girl, how are you?

diary of a G said...

5. Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and
express yourself.

it that what they make it for? or for swimming lol

great post self expression
gotta love it

darkelcee said...

@la reine
Im good

tear and swimming pool both have water.... so go figure.lollll
hope you've changed your mind?

babzent said...

Mo ri owo e l'ori bulogi mi. O se pupo. I hope to turn a new leaf and update more...

tobenna said...

No easter in Malaysia oh.
I vex for them.
And the blogging bias for women goes on....
Why is this titled 25 things a sista....?

Jinta said...

2 fingers ke? ok, sorry, forgot the post was for the sistas

Aijay said...

lol @ Jinta.
Oya update this blog!!

soupasexy said...

longest time gurl, how u be?
i likey!

30+ said...

Abi you thing we have forgotten today is 11th of April, the year of our Lord, ibo lo gba lo

Anonymous said...

lovely write-up,no more apologizes

darkelcee said...

ok sir.but you still never update.loll

cos its 25 and its directed to a sista. no holiday in malaysia? y?

its for brodas too with a sista's heart sha?u get?lolllll

haba this was a fresh updateeee. ko easy men.

i'm good. thans for liking!

busyy with meeting up with my promise.

@anonymous 00.35
yep!no more.

naijalines said...

Well said.